A person’s eyes moving around restlessly searching for opportunities to “score” (see below) which would fill the need for approval and “Feeling-good-about-self”.
A scanning-mode-use-of-the-eyes indicates activity aimed at achieving an unhealthy way to experience yourself.
It is as if you are continuously at the lookout for opportunities to earn that state of “Feel-good-about-self”. Subconsciously you are in a state of high alert because you perceive your life depends on finding those opportunities. You are like a hunter spying around where to aim at.
Ego References? Substitute Sense of Self? Vehicles? The terminology used in the Sense of Self Method takes a bit of getting used to. But as you do you begin to see them not just as explanations but as useful tools for recognizing and dealing with circumstances and suppositions that keep you separate from your Healthy ...