“I am somewhat of a skeptical person but my wife pointed out to me that Antoinetta Vogels’ Sense of Self Approach really creates unexpected openings in solving quite a number of childrearing questions. By becoming aware of our own hidden agenda we are able to make different decisions that greatly benefit our children’s and our family well-being.  More recently the Sense of Self Approach to aging has helped me personally cope with the unexpected, and unexpectedly rapid terminal diagnosis of an elderly relative who is very important to me.  Rather than labor under the distractions false expectations of what ‘a good son should do’ I’ve been able to help where help was needed without ignoring my very real sadness.”  D.I., Entrepreneur