Being successful in using a Vehicle to improve on an Ego-Reference; a success that feels like gaining points toward the Hidden Goal of getting parental approval, which results in a “Feel-good-about-self” as a Substitute Sense of Self.
Scoring on the scale of Substitute Sense of Self-oriented credit points. That is what scoring actually stands for. Scoring marks your progress on your way to getting approval and getting to “Feel-good-about-self”.
Every time your score gets higher you feel it in your belly: butterflies – a wave of excitement – a wave of physical anxiety. It also increases your degree of readiness to explode in anger!
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