The moment of deciding to go to bed at night brings about mixed feelings for me. On the one hand I’m looking forward to throwing off my day clothes that are filled with the vibes of work and sneaking into the fresh clean sheets to let my mind dissolve into the black nothingness of the…
Read the rest...Think with my own mind! My parents, even though long-gone, are still dominating my life! I am still living up to their conditions instead of using my own criteria on how I should be and what I should do. I keep telling myself that I need to think with my own mind instead of adopting…
Read the rest...Suddenly I became aware that my well-being and peace of mind depended upon my boyfriend’s behavior. I was terrified to experience negative emotions about what he was doing or saying. I hated myself if I didn’t like the way he behaved or displayed certain habits. I dreaded that he would do something I wouldn’t be able to…
Read the rest...Printed 1/8/12 Book review As I’m in the process of setting up my own small business, I thoroughly enjoyed David Neenan’s book No Excuses with its compelling subtitle ‘Take Responsibility for Your Own Success’. In an eloquent way he points out how we have choices that are often induced by major perturbations in our lives. …
Read the rest...Today I got so upset with my boyfriend. It is not like he is doing something bad but he seems to not see me. It would make me feel so much better if every now and than he would give me that eye-contact that means : “We understand each other, now don’t we?” Or: “Hey…
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